Monday, September 19, 2011

Randomness - Being Nice

Being Nice


Random acts of kindness rock!  The other day I bought something from a guy on Craigslist.  Although Craigslist might not be for everyone, it's definitely a good source for used equipment (here's more in-depth thoughts).  The most sketchy part about it is both the sellers and the buyers.  As a seller, you wonder who's going to show up to buy what you're selling, if they even bother to show up.  As a buyer, you have to wonder if the seller is going to still have the item when you show up.

The other day I found something on Craigslist that I'd been looking for for a while.  I emailed the seller, we set up a meeting and life was good.  Then I had to cancel, which I figured was the end of my chances.  I emailed him, let him know and offered to set up another meeting, but not until a few days later.  It was a long shot, but he said it would work for him!

When I finally met up, he was a really nice guy and we talked about photography for a while.  When I thanked him for being so flexible with me and the schedule, he just said that he'd want someone to do the same for him and I should pay it forward.  This really made my evening.  Here's a guy who had no idea if I was even going to show up, yet he worked with me and made it a good experience.  I'll definitely pay it forward and will encourage others to do the same.  It can really make a person feel good!

2 comments:

  1. very cool. there is a great book about random acts of kindness by steve sjogren. really changed how i thought about being deliberate in those things. great, great photos john. enjoy looking at how you setup.
    nikonsniper steve

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  2. Thanks, Steve! I've heard of the book but haven't read it yet. Maybe I'll give it a read this winter!

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